When you find yourself in a situation or circumstance that you do not prefer or even strongly dislike, ask yourself - and this may not happen in the moment of the experience, it may happen later upon reflection - ask yourself:

Deliberateness starts with being deliberate about your responses and your perspective on what is occurring in and the circumstances of your life. 

The next step is

This is a wonderful time to become clear about what is important to you in your life experience; become clear about the essence of what it is you wish to experience within yourself, in your relationships,

We wish you to know that no matter how much you sometimes struggle with certain aspects of yourself or in your life and no matter how much you think you should do better - it is ok.

This is your life

When you find yourself wishing for a circumstance in your life or within yourself to be over, we have a suggestion for you how you can become part of the solution.